Our raison d'être
We at TheTherapistAndTheCoach despise fear of rejection, shame and unexplored shadows.
These are conditions that fill most people with some level of anxiety. Each of us comes with our own Erotic Template and its easy to feel alone and misunderstood, judged or rejected - often by our own selves - and it’s important to bring these things into the light and learn to live authentically and practice revealing and celebrating all of one’s ‘self’ in every circumstance.
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Interested...?
Our purpose
TheTherapistAndTheCoach offer a safe haven for everyone seeking sexual and emotional acceptance, wellbeing, empowerment and growth. A greater understanding and celebration of yourself and your own sexual identity and erotic template enables you to live more authentically and wholeheartedly.
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Our purpose is to provide a safe space for individuals and those in relationships to explore their identities, boost self-esteem and overcome emotional and relational challenges. By offering attachment focused counselling, sex coaching, mentoring and valuable resources and opportunities to explore freely and practically, our aim is to guide you toward a life free from insecurity and fear of rejection.
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Our focus on identity, self-esteem and personal growth sets us apart, providing a safe space for individuals to thrive and transform.
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​What also sets us apart is that we offer practical ways to safely explore the areas that you might be too afraid or ashamed to go to in contexts misunderstood or unaccepted by traditional/vanilla therapy settings.
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Join us to embark on a transformative journey towards self-acceptance and empowerment.
Why us...
We’re a team of experienced professionals with backgrounds in therapy, coaching, mentoring, and training.
Beyond our qualifications, we bring personal and professional insight into alternative lifestyles, so we can talk openly and authentically about their dynamics—without judgment or restriction.
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Whether you’re curious about ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy), exploring kink, or just want a safe space to unpack unspoken fantasies, you’ll find the right person or partnership here to guide you. Our goal is for you to come away feeling heard, understood, and empowered.
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We understand the tension between the “real” you and the “vanilla” world—how so much of your true self can stay in the shadows, leaving you feeling split or unfulfilled.
We work to bridge the Pleasure/Orgasm Gap—the differences in knowledge, experience, and expectation that often exist between how people experience sexual satisfaction.
Traditional ideas about sex can put pressure on men to “perform” and often overlook the rich spectrum of female pleasure, including the sheer awesomeness clitoris and other erogenous zones.
Whilst most men have experienced orgasm, far too many women never have. Most have never truly explored what brings them pleasure.
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Our approach celebrates people of all gender identities, each with their unique bodies and erotic experiences. We empower you to shape your own satisfaction while honouring partners in their roles as lovers, facilitators, supporters, and fellow celebrators of that journey.
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We help you explore the many ways to live a fully satisfying sexual and erotic lifestyle while nurturing rich, secure relationships.
Our work is about bringing different worlds together—enhancing awareness of yourself and your partnership, and discovering levels of gratification you may never have imagined.
